Nov
07

What if it’s all a fairy tale? The 401(k) retirement myth

Where did my money go?After a multi generation conversation over the weekend, I was confronted again with the stark difference my generation (I’m 27) faces that any other generation before us. Many of our parents relied on earning a pension, and worked hard for it. Saving and investing was a secondary concern. Since the abolition of the pension in the last ten years, things have changed dramatically. The change has been tragic for those who had been expecting a pension but had it taken away and are close to retirement. The change for younger people, further from retirement, means they still have time to prepare themselves. However, most of us are heading into uncharted waters. Investing isn’t something our parents were required to learn, so we haven’t been taught. We haven’t even been made aware of what we even need to learn. There isn’t an intelligent conversation going on in our culture that will facilitate adequate learning of necessary information for most people.

The basic fact that my generation will need to generate income from investments enough to support themselves is little understood. The best (and mostly worthless) common knowledge is that you simply buy stocks and mutual funds over the course of your career, and when you retire you’ll have some big portfolio that you can live off. This is significantly accepted as true because for the last 50 years, it has worked. But also, for the last 50 years, the United States has enjoyed consistent growth, prosperity and been the world’s financial leader. If, like me, you hold even some concern that the assumption that the US will continue growth in the next 50 years, similar to the last 50 years, then now is the time to educate yourself about what your options are. And this probably means taking control of your financial future. Is it more difficult? Yup. And time consuming? Oh yeah. And means you get to watch less Dancing with the Stars? Unfortunately (emphasized with sarcasm). But times change, the world gets more complex, and we need to keep growing and moving forward to keep up.

This post is just to suggest an alternative to blindly socking away money into your 401(k) and assuming everything will turn out great. If you educate yourself, consider the options and alternatives, and study the different potential outcomes of the stock market and your investments over the next 20-40 years, and you come to the conclusion that pouring all money into a buy and hold portfolio is your best option, then great. You’ll be that much more able to sleep at night. If you invest in your own education, and develop some concerns, there are many options (contact me if you want to talk about them). However, the most tragic scenario, which most will choose, is to fail to educate yourself and weigh your options.

2011-11-08 – UPDATE – This article from wall street journal is a perfect example of what I’m talking about: “The Young an Riskless”You’ll notice that the concluding remark is that young people can’t change anything, and our only option is to increase our amount of savings put into the stock market. This is awful advice. We can change things. We can change our own knowledge of investing, and take control of our financial future.

Oct
31

Pros and Cons of Occupy Wall Street

PROS:

- Glass-Steagall Act prevented Banks from putting FDIC insured money at risk. Once this was repealed, the banks could risk their customers deposited money, and if they lost it, the government would be on the hook to pay it back. After it was repealed, the boom and bust cycle started. First of all, any sort of risky investment should not involve someone else’s money, especially if it is guaranteed with taxpayer dollars. This also requires a concession by bank customers. FDIC insured accounts are risk free. Which means you cannot expect to make ANY return on them. Zero. If you’re concerned about inflation (which you should be) then you have to put your money at risk. And an FDIC insured account contains no risk (aside from inflation of course). So, point one, separate Investment Banks from Regular Deposit Banks.

- It’s obvious that something is wrong with our government structure when Investment banks make criminal activity that causes major losses and triggers (note the word trigger, not cause) a recession, yet, months after the government steps in with taxpayer dollars and allows business as usual to continue shortly after it all went down. I don’t know what the answer is, but it is clear that what we currently have is working more for wealthy corporations in the short term, than the American people in the long run.

It’s important to note that I believe we (America) were headed for a down turn due to more global competition, and generally allowing ourselves to become comfortable while the rest of the world caught up, and quickly passed us by. I also believe that the global borrowing binge is what’s keeping everyone (those affected) down. The recession is, I believe, caused more by these facts than by some immoral activity inside wall street banks.

Point two is that our government seems better positioned to serve wealthy corporations, than the average American family.

CONS:

- As noted in the PROS section, Americans have gotten lazy, and come to expect the best. The world is constantly changing, growing and becoming more competitive. To EXPECT to be treated as you have always been treated, despite the fact that many have done nothing to push themselves further, is arrogant and greedy. The exact behaviors being protested against on wall street. I’m in no way placing blame on anyone. It’s human nature. To say wall street bankers are unique is wrong. Yes, they take money from unknowing people in dishonest ways. But how is that different than a mechanic overcharging and doing unnecessary work on your car. Or a cab driver taking a tourist on what he/she knows to be a slower route? Or, as I’m saying, someone who goes to a mediocre college, studies communication, and EXPECTS to be GIVEN a job and own a house. (sorry com majors, it’s not just you). Is there room for improvement in our government and politics? Yes. Is America perfect, and makes it guaranteed that everyone will prosper? No. Are we better off now, than we were 50 years ago? Debatable, I’d say yes. Is the global marketplace more competitive than ever? Absolutely.

At no point should people expect a step by step process that guarantees prosperity, yet, that seems to be what people expect. We need to constant update our vision of the world, accept some things the way they are, and set out to make a path for ourselves. How is that NOT the American dream? How is that NOT still possible today?

- Banging on drums in New York like you’re at Bonaroo, simply makes you look foolish. If you have dreadlocks, and haven’t shaved or showered in a year, great, enjoy yourself. But don’t expect anyone to be fooled into thinking that you’re trying you’re hardest to find a job.

- 47% of Americans pay no income tax. And we’re led to believe that the 53% who have the luxury of paying taxes, were simply handed a better life. Read through some of the posts on We Are the 53% and you’ll quickly see that most all of us are up against the same forces, and whether we accept responsibility for our environment or not, we all make a choice, every single day, of how to confront those forces.

IN CLOSING:

MOST of the responsibility for succeeding in life, falls on each individuals shoulders. It’s always been that way in America, and it should continue to be that way. The crazy dept our country is in isn’t helping anything, and our political machine needs a tune up. But don’t sit around waiting for someone else to pick you up by your boot straps. That’s on you.

Apr
19

Freedom Story

http://www.presspauseplay.com/http://www.presspauseplay.com/ – This is a trailer for the movie, Press Pause Play.

“This is the best chance you’ve got” – Seth Godin

Seriously, right now is the time to get started. (That’s from me).

I heard someone talking recently about being yourself in your job. And realized why I love my job so much. All other reasons aside, it’s because I am Jason when I show up. I wake up me, I go to work me, I fall asleep me. I’ve worked really hard, through several jobs that didn’t “fit” until I got to a place where I am free to express myself in whatever way I choose. And that freedom is amazing. One of the most vivid memories I have was sitting at lunch with co-workers, in awkward conversation, just thinking that this isn’t how it should be. I didn’t know what was stopping me, but I was completely unable to be myself. I couldn’t tell my stories. I couldn’t make my stupid jokes. I couldn’t laugh at things I thought were funny. Not by conscious choice, it’s more that there was some unspoken constraint on my every action. And I can say from a place of freedom and happiness, that if you experience the same, stuck in the mud unspoken tension, in your day to day life, there is another option. You can free yourself. But it’s not easy. It takes hard work. You have to challenge yourself. The good news is, the world has never been more ready for you to step up to the plate, and shoot for the person you’ve always dreamed of being.

And, that movie looks sick (see link above). If you’re in Chicago when it comes here, I’ll pay for you to go if you’re willing to tell me your story of freedom.

Apr
12

The War of Art and My Resistance

I just finished reading the epic book, “The War of Art,” by Steven Pressfield. He spends the first third of the book describing in great detail what he calls “The Resistance.” The resistance is the force that keeps you from taking risks. It keeps you from putting yourself out there.The War of Art - Steven Pressfield It is the evolutionary remant of our prehistoric need to face risk and unceratainty from a pure self preservation point of view. What will keep me alive for another minute. What will prevent death right now. The resistance is extremely powerful. By simply avoiding death, humans have become the most dominant species on the planet.

Now, the bad news. That fear of risk is now holding us back. Just like many lessons we learn as kids, they eventually have to be unlearned once we reach a place with a deeper upstanding of the issue. We need to unlearn our fear of change, adversity and risk.

Resistance can take many shapes and forms. Procrastination, tiredness, busyness…. the list is a mile long. Have you ever started a diet and failed to follow through? Have you ever envisioned yourself composing a great song, painting a beautiful picture, or making the most influential phone call at just the right moment, but then didn’t? Resistance. The rationalizing, distracting, and avoiding are all symptoms of resistance. It’s ruthless. It will use whatever mechanism it can to keep you from putting yourself out there. From being laughed at. From being judged. From death.

I had a moment of reckoning while reading the book. Do you want to know how resistance beats me? My resistance has one tactic that works almost every time on me. Excitement.

I get so excited and enamored with newness, that I have an extremely hard time finishing things. I have so many ideas. So many plans. So much to do, but how can I ever accomplish any of it? I have started so many projects that never get finished. I have committed to many things only to be pulled in completely new directions once the shininess wears off. So, what will happen if I never confront my resistance? I’ll probably end up with a mile high stack of things I always wanted to do. Of dreams I always thought were within my reach. I’ll probably end up never becoming the person I really wanted to be. But my resistance would be happy. I probably wouldn’t get laughed at. I probably wouldn’t be embarrassed. I probably would rarely be criticized. No, I could probably avoid all these horrible, awful things. So, like you, I have a choice. Appease my resistance, and avoid looking like a fool. Or, put myself out there. Fall down 99 times. And fight to become the person I know I can be. Become the person I dream of being when I’m laying in bed at night.

Resistance is real. It’s powerful. But now you’ve been warned.

Apr
11

The Art of Observation

Small Boat Rough WaterAcquiring a new depth of awareness can lead to a whole range of reactions. Positive, negative, motivating, disheartening, scary, confusing, etc… the list is endless. When strong emotion is connected with these reactions, it can often knock us off balance and lead us to seek a change in order to restore balance. While this can sometimes leads to a positive change in our lives, it more often leads to fits and starts and small panics making us feel like a small ship getting tossed in a large storm at sea.

Instead of seeking to immediately react and incorporate newfound awareness, I’ve found it much more enlightening and peaceful to simple observe as a curious bystander. Say I notice myself acting crude, or ingenuine. Instead of immediately seeking to compensate or overcome, it’s far more effective to simply observe my crudeness for awhile with genuine curiosity. Not only does this diminish or dispel negative emotions, the simple act of indifferent observation has a very transforming effect in and of itself. It’s like falling into the deep end of a pool. If you panic and struggle violently to get to the edge, you may end up drowning. However, if you’re calm, and your motions are smooth and fluid, you can stay afloat for days. So the next time you have a sudden moment of realization or introspection, take a step back, and simply open yourself up to learning more about the way you work. Even if what you’ve seen is scary and nasty, true transformation comes through knowledge and wisdom, not panic and short term compensation.

Mar
19

Doing work that Matters

Doing work that matter means… doing work that is HARD. Work that is hard for you to overcome. And since it’s hard for you to overcome, it’s been hard for everyone to overcome.

Dec
22

3 Months: Completing Goals, Following Passions and Finding Balance

Well, we made it. My original goal was to blog once a day for three months. I’ve missed a few days in the past couple weeks as I’ve been incredibly busy with work, life and holiday shopping. I’m comfortable making a judgment call and not blogging when it would be too hastily constructed to add any value, and will go ahead and say mission accomplished! Not in the George Bush on a boat “Mission Accomplished”, but I really feel as though I accomplished something. I challenged myself to organize and articulate a lot of my thoughts and experiences of my working career up until this point. I’ve been able to connect with many people and drastically increased my ability to have a conversation around the meaning of work and finding happiness through work. And I hope I’ve helped all of you in some way or another.

I wanted to end with a contradiction, as I love contrast in life and the value it adds to most experiences. So I’ve included a TED talk by Mike Rowe. He makes a rousing argument for how America in neck deep in a war on work, and that following your passion is potentially the worst advice you can receive. This talk gave me a shock, as I’ve been talking for years about the virtue of following your passion. And I had a moment of potential anagnorisis and peripeteia (watch the video) as I gave Mike the benefit of the doubt and assumed he had some keen insight I had been missing. So, should we follow our passion? Or should we simply do work that is necessary to the function of society with a smile on our face and faith that balance and happiness can be achieved as readily by cleaning bathrooms as it can by founding companies and creating rock music?

I don’t think there is an easy answer. And I think my answer is drastically different than yours. In his talk Mike talks about the people doing dirty jobs as having great symmetry. My personal goal in life at this point is to achieve balance, which I would say is what Mike means by symmetry. And to say that you will or will not be happy doing something you’re passionate about (or not) is not a complete view of the situation. Life requires symmetry and balance. Our working life is simply one factor. One piece of the puzzle. So, for me, I wanted to really explore the world of work and find some self discovery and actualization in the process. But for the next guy, that may come from some other piece of life.

If you’re curious and excited about exploring the intricacies of what’s available in the realm of work, you may have found my thoughts helpful. If you’re less interested in exploring the working world, then I probably have less to offer. In any case, there is far more to life than work, but also work has the potential to add far more to our lives.

I will continue to post on theregoesjason as I continue to explore the wide world of work and life, but most likely not once a day. Thanks for reading. Happy Holidays and lots of warmth and love.

Dec
21

Curiosity and Change

Often times it seems people spend more energy trying to resist change than they would if they just accepted it and moved on. A healthy curiosity for the world and an appreciation for continued learning makes change something exciting, and not something to be feared. I’m not sure if you can grow your own curiosity for the world, but I can say dealing with change would be a lot easier if you could.

Dec
20

Vision

Vision is the ability to look around you in space and time and see what is happening. Having a keen sense of vision means using your intuition to fill in some of the holes in what you see which allows you to see beyond whats in plain site. Trusting your intuition takes time and confidence. Each of us is also more inclined to “see” different things. Have you ever had an experience where you saw something the people around you didn’t? Or simply had the feeling you understood something very well that others may struggle with? That is your natural ability to see the world in a unique way. Next time that happens, take note, as that may be some indication of what you’re naturally good at.

Dec
17

Ying and Yang: Expansion and Consolidation

Once you accept that life is about change, you come to terms with the nature of change. We go through periods of great expansion where things seem to be out of control and we’re not quite sure what’s happening. Then there are times where our worlds become small and comfortable as we consolidate what we now know about ourselves and the world at large. Fluidly shifting from expansion to consolidation and back again is an art form. It’s not the same for you as it is for me, and it’s never the same as the time before. But it’s always exciting if you embrace the process. Here’s to living and growing!

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